{"id":8,"date":"2000-08-31T18:08:50","date_gmt":"2000-08-31T11:08:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adhi.widjajanto.net\/weblog\/index.php\/2000\/08\/31\/he_has_made_eve\/"},"modified":"2017-07-31T07:40:58","modified_gmt":"2017-07-31T00:40:58","slug":"he_has_made_eve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adhi.widjajanto.net\/blog\/2000\/08\/31\/he_has_made_eve\/","title":{"rendered":"He has made everything beautiful in its time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Someone said to me, it&#8217;s a sad story. But I thought it was not.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re choosing the hard way in our relationship. So much difference, even we<br \/>\ncan accept them all but not everyone around us. My parents, for example. I thought<br \/>\nmy dad can accept some, but it seems degrading lately. Still confuse and curious?<br \/>\nSend me request<br \/>\nthen I&#8217;ll tell you why. It&#8217;s a very long story and I haven&#8217;t write in my home<br \/>\npage yet.<\/p>\n<p>Friday, August 25, 2000, Yanty and I went to Salatiga for my friend&#8217;s wedding<br \/>\non Sunday, 27 August. Normally for other couples, they will stay at their parents.<br \/>\nSo I think the same way. But somehow my dad sends me sms told me that my mom<br \/>\n<strong>does mind <\/strong>with my idea and he has to make priorities. I don&#8217;t<br \/>\nknow in what number he put Yanty and me. Well&#8230; I get the point. Staying at<br \/>\nhotels still a better way even Yanty must check in at 11.30 pm! OK lah, and<br \/>\nthen on Friday morning I start looking for hotel room. Even I&#8217;ve call Ko David<br \/>\nfor suggestion. Well, it seem she had to stay at hotel. Then I prepare my self,<br \/>\nbrought extra money for the rent. Eh, does Lippo ATM have working online already<br \/>\nin Salatiga? I don&#8217;t know, so I brought it from Jakarta.<\/p>\n<p>Went home from office little late, Yanty was little nervous because her bank<br \/>\nwas being audited by BI (he&#8230; they pick the right day to bother us!) and she<br \/>\nhad to go home early. Get to the train station on time, at 5 p.m. I told Yanty<br \/>\nthat she had to stay at hotel because Ahun doesn&#8217;t stay in Salatiga no more.<br \/>\nEven she didn&#8217;t want to stay at hotel alone, she&#8217;s accepted that reality. Gee&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But suddenly, just before I sat on my seat, my cell phone beeps. Then I read,<br \/>\ndad wrote that Yanty can stay at home, mom was already prepare a room for her.<br \/>\nWhat a surprise! In the perfect time, God give us the way! So, on travel time,<br \/>\nI was so cheerful. I don&#8217;t know how&#8217;s Yanty felt about it. But I think she felt<br \/>\nthe same, plus little nervous to see my mom! Ha&#8230; In dad&#8217;s SMS, he said to<br \/>\nYanty to prepare for cool welcome. I just told her that I&#8217;ll support her what<br \/>\nso ever.<\/p>\n<p>At Tawang train station, I thought dad will pick me alone. He&#8230; my mom was<br \/>\nalso there! It&#8217;s another surprise! And she welcomes us normally. 2 days in Salatiga<br \/>\nruns smooth, no fight, no cry. Just normal. Another hope grows in our hearts&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>We came back to Jakarta at August 27, 2000 in peaceful heart.<\/p>\n<p>Last notes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Thanks to Tante Simon and Ko David for your opinion and suggestion. That<br \/>\naffects us much.<\/li>\n<li>Thanks to Lusi who reply my first mail and already support us so far.<\/li>\n<li>Thanks to everyone in Pondok Daud who still thinks Yanty is Lusi every time<br \/>\nYanty come to PD.<\/li>\n<li>Thanks to oldies, show your presence when we&#8217;re in Salatiga, feel nice at<br \/>\nhome!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Someone said to me, it&#8217;s a sad story. But I thought it was not. We&#8217;re choosing the hard way in our relationship. So much difference, even we can accept them all but not everyone around us. My parents, for example. 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